What happened???

I just had a cole knife cone biopsy 9 days ago.  I also had my uterus scraped and whatever else they do, because they were sure I had uterine cancer .... That test came back CLEAR. I told them I didn't have uterine cancer, but this proves it !!!  Also, half of my cervix is gone now. Just this week, they called  and I've found they ignored taking out a high grade grandular lesion consistent with adenocarcinoma in situ...because they say I have to have an oncologist do that surgery, which they are advocating a total historectomy including lymph nodes, etc. I don't think this is necessary, at this time.....Why don't they remove the in situ and keep a watchful eye on me???   I honestly can't withstand any more poking, probing, scraping, cutting, burning...I had a heart attack 3 weeks ago from the stress of this wonderful disease.....Thanks to my straying dog of an ex husband !!!I seriously don't think I'll survive anymore serious surgeries.....Has anyone gone through this???