is there some place to give financial and mental support during this time

I've been off work for months now, because I'm mentally tired and to tired to move sometimes. I try to keep moving, and not to let my wife think I'm not a man. But Now the holidays coming bills mounting. Is there anywhere for a person like me to get some relief. Social security said I won't be off a yr. the state told me if the social security denied me they would too. Guess what they did. My wife is carrying the load and I feel like nothing. Is there something to help me.