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Okay, this is my first time on the Board.  I had PC and had a nerve sparing radical prostatectomy in Aug 06.  Am still having what I think are many side effects. ie.  minimal erections, 'major shrinkage', if you know what I mean! some leakage, no sex drive and pain in orgasm.  The medicines I know of like viagra, levitra and cialis do not seem to work and their side effects like major nasal congestion and headache only deflate any sexual appetite I try to muster up.   My urologist thinks I am depressed, duh, so am now on antidepressants and gaining weight and although my problems now seem minimal, never the less they are still there.  I do not know how to deal with them.  If any other sur...