The interesting thing is, the medical community doesn't seem to focus on that issue and it is so very important. I believe our emotional self is a tremendous part of the battle. I think that is why a site like this one can be very helpful. The people taking the time to participate are real people with real concerns and therefore I can tell you from experience,you need to speak to those cancer patients and supporters like myself (Mom of a son with cancer history, doing great!) to help you through this. It is so much better to know you are not alone. Seek any situation you can find strength and growth in, we will help you forge on!